Okay, I got this solved to my satisfaction. I simply configured the channel with the SEND string from the backup job log. Now RMAN can see the backups, doesn't mark them as EXPIRED and I can delete the jobs from RMAN after deleting them from BE 11d. However, I would still like better documentation about how BE uses and interfaces with RMAN. I guess I will just wait and see if Symantec releases such a documentation.