The thing to focus on here is this line: "The I/O writes cannot be held during the shadow copy creation period" which basically means that there is too much disk activity for the shadow copy creation to complete.
Look into running a pre job/post job command to stop and, after the backup job is complete, start your antivirus program. Look into what, if any, other programs that are running during the backup job. Something that generates disk activity.
For my part, I discoved this when I was troubleshooting VSS problems, and turned on the debugging feature for VSS. I specified that the log file should be created in the root of the C: drive. As it turned out, so much information was written to the file that it grew to over 120MB over just two backupjobs. This generated the "The I/O writes cannot be held.." error message in my case. When I turned off the debugging feature, the error message went away.
Hope this was somewhat helpful.