I ran the vxprint on both sides (they can ping each other) here's the output:
--------------Primary------------------
C:\>vxprint -VPl
Diskgroup = BasicGroup
Diskgroup = evdg
Rvg : RVG_evdg_0
state : state=ACTIVE kernel=ENABLED
assoc : datavols=\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\MSMQ,\Device\HarddiskDmVolu
mes\evdg\regrep,\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\EVIndex,\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes
\evdg\EVStore
srl=\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\SRL
rlinks=rlk_dams-alt-uea02_17797
att : rlinks=rlk_dams-alt-uea02_17797
checkpoint :
flags : primary enabled attached autosync resync_paused clustered
Rlink : rlk_dams-alt-uea02_17797
info : timeout=500 packet_size=1400
latency_high_mark=10000 latency_low_mark=9950
bandwidth_limit=none
state : state=ACTIVE
synchronous=override latencyprot=off srlprot=autodcm
assoc : rvg=RVG_evdg_0
remote_host=172.16.2.83
remote_dg=evdg
remote_rlink=rlk_dams-lab-uea02_31554
local_host=172.16.1.83
protocol : UDP/IP
flags : write attached inconsistent cant_sync disconnected autosync resync_
paused
--------------Secondary----------------
C:\>vxprint -VPl
Diskgroup = BasicGroup
Diskgroup = evdg
Rvg : RVG_evdg_0
state : state=ACTIVE kernel=ENABLED
assoc : datavols=\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\EVIndex,\Device\HarddiskDmV
olumes\evdg\EVStore,\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\regrep,\Device\HarddiskDmVolu
mes\evdg\MSMQ
srl=\Device\HarddiskDmVolumes\evdg\SRL
rlinks=rlk_dams-lab-uea02_31554
att : rlinks=rlk_dams-lab-uea02_31554
checkpoint :
flags : secondary enabled attached read write clustered
Rlink : rlk_dams-lab-uea02_31554
info : timeout=0 packet_size=1400
latency_high_mark=10000 latency_low_mark=9950
bandwidth_limit=none
state : state=ACTIVE
synchronous=override latencyprot=off srlprot=autodcm
assoc : rvg=RVG_evdg_0
remote_host=172.16.1.83
remote_dg=evdg
remote_rlink=rlk_dams-alt-uea02_17797
local_host=172.16.2.83
protocol : UDP/IP
flags : write attached inconsistent cant_sync disconnected